I know I know it's been a while since I've written anything so you may be mad at me but I have A LOT to talk about! So I hope you have some time :-)
K, well last time I blogged it was about Rhajah's accident... not even touching on that subject today. Maybe tomorrow?... I guess you'll see.
I moved back on campus January 4th and had my first class January 6th, I'm sooo happy to be back to the hustle and bustle of college life! I'm super confident about this semester, my classes all seem to be pretty cool with awesome professors. Plus I have a friend or two in every class so that always helps especially when it's time to study. Intro to Sociology, Intro to Psychology, American Government and Guitar! I love music so I already know the guitar class is going to be my favorite... I think I would marry music if i could... Maybe it's possible I mean if a woman can marry a horse I can marry music, right? Lol I tickle myself sometimes
Any who, like I said I'm super happy to be back at school. It was such a stress relief, you know? I love the "exercise" I'm getting walking around campus whenever I want, the freedom of doing what I want, when I want... around RHA of course lol. I'm not sure we've talked about RHA... Okay so freshman year I wanted to run for President of Hamlin Hall Council (the residence hall I lived in last year), so I would have basically been over all building meetings and programs in that particular hall. Sadly my application was lost and I was never considered for that position... or at least that's what I thought. A few weeks later I got back to my room from class and someone had slipped an application under my door with my name on it and the role of President checked with a sticky note saying "Go For It!". Someone had bigger plans for me. Of course I filled out the application and turned it in, went through 3 interviews and was given the position of President of the Residence Halls Association, so now that little role I wanted in Hamlin Hall Council had to report to me... along with the 5 other halls on campus. To be granted that opportunity was so super huge to me and I felt like for the first time in a long time I had something to brag about lol. So in May I was sent (paid for by the school) to University of Arizona for training and NACURH (The Annual RHA Conference)! There were schools there from all over the U.S plus Canada, Mexico and even Australia! (that just reminded me... I have another conference in March in Wisconsin for 3 days).
Everything was wonderful, I loved my life, my job and school... then towards the end of the summer I met the love of my life and I began to really worry about how in the world I was going to juggle school, RHA and her all at once and succeed in all three. When the school year started I just knew my relationship was going to fail because of RHA; all the meetings I have and all the people I have to talk to. But it didn't and I'm so proud of that and so happy that it didn't. I honestly think Rhajah is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Since I've moved back on campus we've learned to work things out and I'm absolutely loving our relationship. I love how we can be together without being together every second of everyday. We don't have to sit up on a phone all day, talk online all day or anything... we're both too damn busy for that right now anyway (excuse my language).
My family has finally accepted the fact that I'm transferring to UofM Flint that way I can get the better degree and be with her. It's like a WIN-WIN situation if you ask me. You just don't know how much I love this woman. It's completely ridiculous the way she makes me feel... I blush when I'm around her or even on the phone with her, she makes me giggle like a child and I've never smiled harder than when I'm with her. It's ridiculous, things I would never do for anyone else I'm ready to do for her.
Moving On...
I'm not sure if I told ya'll about this or not but January 2nd was my grandmama's birthday. The whole family (and extended family) over 18 went to Andiamo's for dinner on my Daddy's dime. (the bill was like 600!) But anyway my dad brought his girlfriend and I'm cool with Krystal, I mean I don't have anything personal against her and I want my dad to be happy but my mom on the other hand tore Krystal to pieces at dinner. Here I am sitting with my mother and step-father on my left and my father and his girlfriend on my right arguing while I'm just trying to duck and dodge invisible word bullets and pleading the 5th to every question coming my way. Ugh. It was ridiculous. My cousins Francis and Dwight thought this was the most hilarious thing ever and stuffed their faces with bread and marinara with front row seats to the updated NEW AND IMPROVED version of "baby mama drama" and "he's my man now".
Well in lighter news 115 days until I transfer and I'm closer to her!! But until then I'm vibing to some Jill Scott just "Living my life like it's golden, GOLDEN!"
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